Why foreign men are hot

There just happens to be that fascinatingly curious thing that makes me want to explore the unknown, like finding myself in the arms of a man who is not a Mzansi national. And, boy, does that idea intrigue me!

I’m pretty sure that we have all thought that if a man speaks different and acts different, then he definitely must generally be unlike the rest. There’s something mysterious and alluring about a man from a foreign country and we females swoon at the sound of a man who speaks to us in a foreign accent.

I used to gather all my girlfriends and acquaintances on a night out and we would chat and fantasise about how sexy any man with an accent is for hours on end. My friends and I have even developed preferences when it comes to alien hotties; from French to Italian and even American.

My personal favourite has to be English men. I could honestly sit and stare into the eyes of an English man and listen to him speak all day long, not to even mention when he screams when making love. Have you ever wondered what the English men say when they reach their orgasm?

I’ve had local guys roll their eyes at me for ‘oohing’ and ‘aaahing’ over another man’s foreign accent, and some even took offence and asked: “Is there something wrong with South African men?”
Of course my answer was “No”, but in a similar fashion, I also asked: “Is there anything wrong with South African men that men have to ‘ooh’ and ‘aah’ over those exotic Brazilian beauties?”

That is exactly my point. A foreign man can also be our “prince charming” and whisk us away on his private white jet; you can’t blame a girl for dreaming.

Either way, foreign flavour has me captivated. It is not only the attractiveness of exotic men that has me transfixed like a love-struck teenager.

It is the fact that they add an element of alternative culture; a hint of adventure and the magnetism of the mysterious. Besides, how often have we not searched for the perfect face to fit the profile of our imagined white knight from the pages of our favorite novel?

I say there’s nothing wrong with a little fantasy, ladies, wouldn’t you agree? It seems the whole concept of catching a man and keeping him can be tricky. All the experts agree that it is essential to think long and hard before barging ahead on the strength of a superficial meeting or an idealised idea of romance.

To attempt to catch a man, come hell or high water, is equivalent to wanting to control or manipulate him. That can be a daunting task, as controlling another person is close to impossible.

Let him know you’re interested in more than a casual sex experience. Do not sleep with him until you have spent enough time with him to know you really want to pursue this relationship.

Keep yourself interesting as a person, not just as a pretty face. Devote time and energy to the relationship and work on deepening it. The last thing you need is to sell yourself short to a potential man.

Make sure it is also fun and unpredictable word is foreign brothers are full of fun. Relax it’s all about having fun anyway.

Do not cling; a man needs an adult woman, not a needy child. Allow him his space, insist on your own and don’t sublimate your needs and interests to his. Lastly make your time with that man worth

your while after all we all know they are here for a limited period, give him something he will remember you with.